Category Archives: Wisdom
The learned rule.
"In times of change learners inherit the earth; while the learned find themselves beautifully equipped to deal with a world that no longer exists."
Eric Hoffer
the truth will set you free
Well, maybe judicious, pragmatic, end-oriented, polite, simple, good-natured, balanced, appropriate, situation-specific, culturally-oriented, risk-conscious, region/locale-tailored, education-level gauged, friendliness-level accounted for, philosophically sound, mathematically correct, NPV-positive, family-background-specific, and/or self-aware versions of the truth might set you free, at least you think it will, for now until someone else’s truth becomes "better."
Dread (n): the fear of a specific, expected/anticipated,unpleasant occurrence (syn: apprehension).
"The dread associated with things like medical procedures or public speaking, while real, can probably be alleviated by diverting one’s attention during the waiting period," says Dr. Gregory Berns, an associate professor in the Department of Psychiatry and Behavioral Sciences at Emory University School of Medicine. "There may be many ways to do this, ranging from meditation to sports, or even a movie. The benefits could be substantial if it means that we act more rationally in terms of getting healthcare, or simply decreasing the psychological toll of dread and anxiety."
If you tell the truth you don’t have to remember anything. ~Mark Twain
It is hard to believe that a man is telling the truth when you know that you would lie if you were in his place. ~Henry Louis Mencken, A Little Book in C Major, 1916
If you tell the truth you don’t have to remember anything. ~Mark Twain
Who lies for you will lie against you. ~Bosnian Proverb
No man has a good enough memory to make a successful liar. ~Abraham Lincoln
Make yourself an honest man, and then you may be sure there is one less rascal in the world. ~Thomas Carlyle
A half truth is a whole lie. ~Yiddish Proverb
A lie will easily get you out of a scrape, and yet, strangely and beautifully, rapture possesses you when you have taken the scrape and left out the lie. ~Charles Edward Montague, Disenchantment
Those who think it is permissible to tell white lies soon grow color-blind. ~Austin O’Malley
A truth that’s told with bad intent beats all the lies you can invent. ~William Blake, "Auguries of Innocence," Poems from the Pickering Manuscript
The least initial deviation from the truth is multiplied later a thousandfold. ~Aristotle
The most dangerous untruths are truths moderately distorted. ~Georg Christoph Lichtenberg
Dare to be true: nothing can need a lie: A fault, which needs it most, grows two thereby. ~George Herbert
With lies you may get ahead in the world – but you can never go back. ~Russian proverb
Honesty is the rarest wealth anyone can possess, and yet all the honesty in the world ain’t lawful tender for a loaf of bread. ~Josh Billings
The hardest tumble a man can make is to fall over his own bluff. ~Ambrose Bierce
A lie has speed, but truth has endurance. ~Edgar J. Mohn
When you stretch the truth, watch out for the snapback. ~Bill Copeland
Truth is the most valuable thing we have, so I try to conserve it. ~Mark Twain
Honesty is never seen sitting astride the fence. ~Lemuel K. Washburn, Is The Bible Worth Reading And Other Essays, 1911
A lie may take care of the present, but it has no future. ~Author Unknown
We tell lies when we are afraid… afraid of what we don’t know, afraid of what others will think, afraid of what will be found out about us. But every time we tell a lie, the thing that we fear grows stronger. ~Tad Williams
Truth fears no questions. ~Unknown
There are only two ways of telling the complete truth – anonymously and posthumously. ~Thomas Sowell
Honesty is the first chapter of the book of wisdom. ~Thomas Jefferson
I don’t mind lying, but I hate inaccuracy. ~Samuel Butler, Note-Books, 1912
There is no well-defined boundary between honesty and dishonesty. The frontiers of one blend with the outside limits of the other, and he who attempts to tread this dangerous ground may be sometimes in one domain and sometimes in the other. ~O. Henry, Rolling Stones, 1912
Pretty much all the honest truth telling in the world is done by children. ~Oliver Wendell
The truth brings with it a great measure of absolution, always. ~R.D. Laing
Men occasionally stumble over the truth, but most of them pick themselves up and hurry off as if nothing had happened. ~Winston Churchill
If you want to ruin the truth, stretch it. ~Author Unknown
Respect for the truth is an acquired taste. ~Mark Van Doren, Liberal Education, 1943
If falsehood, like truth, had but one face, we would be more on equal terms. For we would consider the contrary of what the liar said to be certain. But the opposite of truth has a hundred thousand faces and an infinite field. ~Michel Eyquem de Montaigne
The truth is more important than the facts. ~Frank Lloyd Wright
Like all valuable commodities, truth is often counterfeited. ~James Cardinal Gibbons
When a man lies, he murders some part of the world. ~Rospo Pallenberg and John Boorman, Excalibur, based on Le Morte d’Arthur by Thomas Malory
It is not without good reason said, that he who has not a good memory should never take upon him the trade of lying. ~Michel de Montaigne, translated
People who are brutally honest get more satisfaction out of the brutality than out of the honesty. ~Richard J. Needham
If we were all given by magic the power to read each other’s thoughts, I suppose the first effect would be to dissolve all friendships. ~Bertrand Russell
It is impossible to calculate the moral mischief, if I may so express it, that mental lying has produced in society. When a man has so far corrupted and prostituted the chastity of his mind as to subscribe his professional belief to things he does not believe he has prepared himself for the commission of every other crime. ~Thomas Paine, The Age of Reason
Beware of the half truth. You may have gotten hold of the wrong half. ~Author Unknown
When truth is divided, errors multiply. ~Eli Siegel, Damned Welcome
Truth is such a rare thing, it is delightful to tell it. ~Emily Dickinson
Honesty pays, but it don’t seem to pay enough to suit some people. ~Frank McKinney "Kin" Hubbard
A little candor never leaves me. It is what protects me. ~Antonio Porchia, Voces, 1943, translated from Spanish by W.S. Merwin
No mask like open truth to cover lies,
As to go naked is the best disguise.
~William Congreve
As to go naked is the best disguise.
~William Congreve
Truth is mighty and will prevail. There is nothing the matter with this, except that it ain’t so. ~Mark Twain, Notebook, 1935
Reality is bad enough. Why should I tell the truth? ~Patrick Sky
Speak the truth, but leave immediately after. ~Slovenian Proverb
Always tell the truth. Even if you have to make it up. ~Author Unknown
The cruelest lies are often told in silence. ~Adlai Stevenson
The truth is the only thing worth having, and, in a civilized life, like ours, where so many risks are removed, facing it is almost the only courageous thing left to do. ~E.V. Lucas
The highest compact we can make with our fellow is – "Let there be truth between us two forevermore." ~Ralph Waldo Emerson
Often, the surest way to convey information is to tell the strict truth. ~Mark Twain
Man is least himself when he talks in his own person. Give him a mask, and he will tell you the truth. ~Oscar Wilde
Today I bent the truth to be kind, and I have no regret, for I am far surer of what is kind than I am of what is true. ~Robert Brault
The truth needs so little rehearsal. ~Barbara Kingsolver, Animal Dreams
A lie can travel half way around the world while the truth is putting on its shoes. ~Mark Twain
Society can exist only on the basis that there is some amount of polished lying and that no one says exactly what he thinks. ~Lin Yutang
A little inaccuracy sometimes saves tons of explanation. ~Saki
Some people will not tolerate such emotional honesty in communication. They would rather defend their dishonesty on the grounds that it might hurt others. Therefore, having rationalized their phoniness into nobility, they settle for superficial relationships. ~Author Unknown
It takes two to lie. One to lie and one to listen. ~"Homer Simpson," from the television show The Simpsons
There’s one way to find out if a man is honest – ask him. If he says, "Yes," you know he is a crook. ~Groucho Marx
One of the most striking differences between a cat and a lie is that a cat has only nine lives. ~Mark Twain
It is always the best policy to tell the truth, unless, of course, you are an exceptionally good liar. ~Jerome K. Jerome
Always tell the truth. If you can’t always tell the truth, don’t lie. ~Author Unknown
I am different from Washington; I have a higher, grander standard of principle. Washington could not lie. I can lie, but I won’t. ~Mark Twain
Source: www.quotegarden.com/honesty.html
The Seven Habits of Highly Effective People
- Be proactive.
Take initiative and be responsible. - Begin with the end in mind.
Work with a clear vision an dmission. - Put first things first.
Focus on the things that matter most. - Think win/win.
Practice the golden rule. - Seek first to understand, then be understood.
Listen and acti with empathy. - Synergize.
"All for one, one for all." - Sharpen the saw.
Learn, commit, and do.
From The Seven Habits of Highly Effective People.
Sephen R. Covey. Simon & Schuster, 1990.
Sephen R. Covey. Simon & Schuster, 1990.
The Malthusian Trap: an explanation of why it’s false (and when it’s not)
I see this article as a good example of how blog authors will eventually usurp traditional news media. The author of this article, Vlad Tarko, has unknown credentials, but writes quite effectively, and in a way that probably 95% of traditional writers for journals and textbooks simply can’t communicate. His style is for the Web, that is, it’s written in a way that a sixth grader could understand, with maybe one or two trips to a dictionary. You’re given the information quickly and without any fuss–exactly how blogs are intended to be. Vlad probably included a few subtle errors that I’d find, were I to spend an hour analyzing and researching every sentence; however, I know that if I’m interested in a particular point, I will research it further. It is this balance of simplicity and lack of academic rigor that I find very intriguing and I’ll be exploring this medium for the next few years, to be sure.
- Dan
Communication is a Two-Way Street
I found this to be an excellent article. I recently have been thinking about democratic relationships, which of course are necessary at the couple, team, organization, corporation, government, and international levels. This article is but one example of many in demonstrating principles of communication. Thought I’d share.
http://www.nurseweek.com/news/features/01-03/twoway.asp
